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September 10, 2008



WOW..your post made me tear up girl, I know that was not your intention but it is just so deep, my grandmother, whom I considered my mom passed away in June and that was the hardest plane ride I had to take. It will get better, at least I tell myself that, and their are days I can relate so much to what you are saying. Head up beautiful..he see's you and is with you and I promise . .. he is SMILING



I'm sorry about your dad... and the rough time you've been having. My dad passed away 8 years ago and I still really miss him. I wish there was something I could say to make things better. I hope things start getting easier for you soon.

Norma Kennedy

Oh KT how I understand your pain and loss. It is very normal to go thru a mourning period and it is healthy that you have allowed yourself this time. However I am glad to hear that you recognize your pain and are ready for all the possibilities of a wonderful life :' ) I wish your heart to be pain free and I send you many (((hugs))), Norma K


Hey girl!-part of the healing process is being able to get your feelings out in the open, no matter what they may be...why say you feel fine if you don't? Love is like that so Essandra & I are sending you HUGE cyber hugs! Hope to see you in October at the KJ could always come crop with us instead of being a vendor! It's a minute, an hour, a day a time; that's all you can worry be able to be loved like that is a blessing and some people don't have that love for parents so IT'S A GOOD THING to miss him so much.


hey girl. just wanted to say that i don't know that it'll ever get easier, but i'm glad things are looking up for you finally. all the best to you.



Sorry about your dad. I lost my mom 2,5 years ago, to cancer. Things won't get easier, unfortunately. But somehow you learn to live with it. You get used to someone not being around. You will find your way again, though it will keep on hurting. Take as much time as you need to deal with it, you're allowed to think about yourself at this time. And if people don't understand, it's their loss...

Hugs, Mandy


I read your blog frequently and I just wanted to say how very sorry I am for your loss. My Dad passed away very unexpectadly 6 years ago and 6months after his death I too felt things would never get easier and was in such a sad state myself. But I was wrong...I has gotten easier. Yes, I still miss him everyday day and not a day goes by that I don't think about him, but the difference is I don't cry everyday and his "death" no longer consumes me. Today I'm able to focus on his "life" and my memories of him make me happy not sad.
It will take time and the amount of time is different for everyone..for me it was about 2years before I started feeling the way I do today.
Hang in there and know he DOES see you and he IS still with you.


i have to agree with Hillary--i lost my mom 7 years ago. somehow, it does get easier, in the sense that you don't cry everyday. it's hard when you think about it, but you have to live your life. it helps me to remember my mom and all of the things i loved about her, and to tell stories about her. i also try hard to enjoy life, and not let the loss of her get me down (i have my moments, of course, like when i got married and always the month of august is hard b/c she died in august, and her birthday was in august). i think it would make her so sad if i were sad, and so i live my life the best i can, and know she is in me and with me always.
hang in there, and keep telling his stories. live your life, the life he helped you create, and know he will always be with you. and please don't think i'm saying this will happen overnight, it won't, but one day you will wake up and realize you haven't cried in a week. and that will feel good.
my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.


I came across your blog when your Dad first passed away. The other day I was thinking about how you were doing. It does not get easier when we suffer the loss of a loved one however, we will see them again and that should help your heart knowing that. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.


still thinking of you everyday. miss you.

Shelley Haganman

I can't imagine how difficult this all is for you. Just know that I am still saying prayers for you and keeping you in my thoughts. I know that you will get stonger and your days will get brighter. Your dad would want that for you! Know that he is with you always and you will be reunited with him some day!Take care! Shelley

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